Consent Codes: A Modern Framework for Sex, Power, and Dignity

Your consent code is as unique as your fingerprint. Personal. Contextual. Yours — the moment you decide to claim it.

In Consent Codes

, Stef Hammett exposes the hidden operating system shaping how power, desire, and dignity actually work — in bedrooms, boardrooms, and courtrooms. Drawing from social research, economics, psychology, and real-world case studies, this book uncovers outdated narratives around shame, silence, and coercion — and offers a clearer path toward safer communities, healthier relationships, and a culture that actually works.

Delete. Edit. Save.

Three commands. Applied to your relationships, your organization, your community. Inside, you will discover:

The cultural scripts that make exploitation easy and accountability expensive

Why predatory behavior spreads like malware

The difference between desire that builds and control that destroys

How community care becomes the most powerful antivirus a society can run

Practical tools for more safety, more space — and yes, more sex

Consent Codes is a bold invitation to upgrade our social operating system — from "kind of human" to human kindness.